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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Mothering Mothers 2009 at UM Hospital - update

Some bloggers and friends have msn me to ask why my blog has been so quiet the last few months.

Not by choice, really. Lots of stuff which makes time scarce and things hectic. Kids sick, me sick, kids sick again, me sick again, its a vicious cycle. Then my sister was admitted to the hospital, then it was Ashley. And that is coupled with extra workload, datelines, trials and hearings, and being maidless.

Phew, it is exhausting just running through these. Haha.

Now that things are somewhat settled, I have to schedule some time to coach the kid her revision for her coming exams and get the guest room cleaned up for my brother who is coming back from Miami for holiday with his wife. So, for the moment, bento posts may still take a back seat.

That aside, the main reason for today's post is more important.

Many of us love our kids from the bottomless pit of our hearts. They are virtually our whole universe, our sunshine, our everything.

Just imagine, "if" one's own kid is terminally ill. And the kid may never ever live long enough to celebrate Mothers' Day with his or her mother on this coming 10th May, or the many many 10th May to come. How does it feel.

However, Mothers Day is probably the least issue on a mother's mind when their child is labouring to breath, or when their child is growing weaker and weaker by the day with tubes stuck all over its tiny little frame.

Lilian of My Mom's Best ("MMB") , a breastfeeding forum, has on many occassion initiated the Mother's Day do, Mothering Mother, at the UM Hospital for those courageous mothers of the terminally ill children.

I, along with other MMB forum members, had the pleasure of helping out 2 years ago with purchase of gifts, wrapping and collection of gifts from pledgors. When Ros asked me again this year, I am more than willing to assist, since I couldn't gather as much funds as Lilian or the other MMB members and this is the only way I could assist. We have some volunteers but we may need more. This year, it is not restricted to MMB members. We welcome all volunteers.

But more importantly, we need more contributors for the presents for the mothers.

I will cut and paste the details from Ros' Blog

mothering mothers
"Mothering Mother 2007"

How you can contribute?

1. Gifts
As much as we love to have each contributor to put their own personal choice/touch to the gifts, we are aware of certain matters regarding sensitivities related to religion, belief or taboos. Breakable items and perishable food are also not suitable. So we have come up with the following list of gifts:

mothering mother 2004
"Mothering Mother 2005"

Non-perishable food/beverage
Journal / Diary (better the one without rigid dates daily)
Photo album
Framed painting /pictures of landscapes, beautiful moments, etc
Mini cushions (for hugs)
Mini fancy containers / boxes
Small elec. appliances
Comfy slippers or socks
As for others: mini card + dry fragrant flower, scarves, aromatherapy candles, magnetic decorative item and sarong can be put as side gifts if contributors like.

We tried not to have cash last time, but we receive it on the basis that some volunteers did the buying and packaging.

For those who interested to contribute in cash, you can make your number of pledges in numerical order in the comment box below and pay the money to the account the a.c. number as follows:

RHB Bank a.c. number : 2140-71000-98939
(and please leave a comment to let us know how much each of you have banked in on which day and we will email you with an email address for the printscreen, if any).


Normal shoe-box size, but not so rigid - size should not be too big or small as we don't want people to think we do double standard. Not necessarily in shoe boxes, some mothers came with nice paper bags etc depends on their creativity. Make sure they are properly wrapped or tied for easy transportation. We agreed that the price per gift should be under RM20.

2. Be in the hospital

Due to some reasons, the event will be held on Saturday a day before Mother's Day 2009. More info as follows:

Venue: Menara Timur, UMMC

Date: May 9th, 2009

Time: 9.30 am to 12 pm

3. Picking up or dropping off

Volunteers to do picking up or offer a place for dropping off. Keep the pledges coming in and pass the words. Feel free to ask any question.

Please take note each gift will be RM20, so it is up to you how many gifts you want to contribute.

Current Number of pledges:
1. Mama23beas: 5
2. Moo Mommy: 10
3. Lavender: 3
4. Geok Hong: 2
5. sofhib: 5
6. Eydd: 10
7. Charine: 5
8. Christene : 5
9. Chanel :5
10. Lyza: 5 (at least)
11. Eida: 5
12. hui-wearn: 5
13. Misha Paris's Mum - 5
14. Jacss - 5
15. Amy - 5
16. Jessytai - 2
17. Eve - 2
18. Anggie - 3
19. Michele Soo - 3
20. Elaine - 5
21. Hijackqueen - 2
updates :
22. Pek Imm - 3
23. WCP - 2
24. NST - 2.5
25. Sqkiki - 2
26. Javapot - 6
27. Lilian - 5
28. Annieq - 3
29. Adrine -5
30. Wai Han - 1
31. Redbabe - 1
32. Eva Razali, Delliah, Liza Masrina and Ninuk – 10
33. Sheryl Hen – 3
34. JO-N : 5
35. Vedis – 2
36. Pohling – 2
37. Shamira - 5
38. Zainab - 4
39. Inbha - 3
40. Salmiah - 1
41. Suzana - 1
42. Nalini - 1
43. Alina Grace - 3
44. Suzette - 2
45. chinnee - 3
46. Arthur chu - 5
47. GiddyTigerS - 5
48. 5xmom - 5 pledges
49. Elaine Lai - 3 pledges
50. Janice Loke - 2.5 pledges
51. Karen Yiaw - 5
52. motherly journal - 2
53. Kerry - 3
54. LJW - 5

total : 208 (and Big Pumpkin - contribution for petrol)

Thanks to Lildanzell and MyLovelyA for contributing 60 foldable recycled bags (Linda Linda Envirosave Eva bags) as carriers of gifts. We have decided that instead of using it as carriers for gifts, we will add them to some of the gifts to make it more substantial and the balance will be split between volunteers to be dished out for particularly deserving mothers as an extra item during visits.

Keep the pledges coming in.

note : As you pledge your gifts, write down in the comment box below in numerical order and we will update accordingly time and again)

Drop-off points
Thanks to Lily of UmmikuSayang and Vivian of Fabulous Mom :

1. AlimKids Bookstore, 6-1 USJ 9/5Q, Subang Business Centre, 47600 UEP Subang Jaya.

2.Fabulous Mom Sdn Bhd, 2A, Jalan TK2/1C, Taman Kinrara, Seksyen 2
47100 Puchong, Selangor, Malaysia (First floor, corner unit, above Shanghai Coffee Shop) Tel: 03-80765262,Fax: 03-80765562

3. Kota Kemuning, Shah Alam - email Elaine at for instructions

Ros is waiting for confirmation from 2 more drop-off points, and will update it here.

Volunteers at UMMC (limited to 12)
1. Mama23beas
2. Sofhib
3. Geok Hong
4. Shamira
5. Eydd
6. Christene
7. Elaine (Montessorimum)
7. Wai Han
8. Redbabe
9. Yan nie

Please confirm your participation with Ros. Due to the hospital regulation, there is a limit of 12 participants in the visit. Those who are coming can bring their gifts on D-Day, but we need the number of pledges so that we can plan better. For example which wards to go if we have extra or what to do if we have less, number of trolleys that we need etc.

Please also check Chanel's blog for any additional updates.

Each pledge is for a gift of RM20. To quote Ros, "Keep those pledges coming in".

Each additional pleadge will brighten up an otherwise dreary day of one more preoccupied harried exhausted mother of a terminally ill child.

So, in the name of mothering mothers, LET US TAKE OFF FROM HERE !!!


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  • 13. Misha Paris's Mum - 5 pledges

    By Blogger I am Princess Misha's Mum, At 7:48 AM  

  • Thanks chris for inviting me to do somethg meaningful this year in conjunction with mother's day!!
    14. Jacss - 5 pledges

    we shall catch up on this further ...

    By Anonymous jacss, At 9:07 AM  

  • 15. Amy - 5 pledges
    I'm so happy to hear that this project is still going on, it's been some time since I last log on to MMB.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:37 AM  

  • Oops, that was me. LOL!

    By Anonymous shoppingmum, At 10:38 AM  

  • 15. Jess - 2

    By Anonymous Jess, At 11:07 AM  

  • Update :

    13. Misha Paris's Mum - 5 pledges
    14. Jacss - 5 pledges
    15. Amy - 5 pledges
    16. Jessytai - 2 pledges
    17. Eve - 2 pledges

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 11:12 AM  

  • Hi .... anggie here .... ( just bank in to ur RHB bank, pls kindly check)

    18. Anggie - 3 pledges

    By Blogger Anggie's Journal, At 11:23 AM  

  • CP - 2

    By Blogger chooi peng, At 5:22 PM  

  • 13. Misha Paris's Mum - 5
    14. Jacss - 5
    15. Amy - 5
    16. Jessytai - 2
    17. Eve - 2
    18. Anggie - 3
    19. Michele Soo - 3
    20. Elaine - 5
    21. Hijackqueen - 2
    22. WCP - 2
    23. NST - 2.5

    Total : 101.5

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 9:56 AM  

  • 2 from sqkiki.

    Transferred on 02.05.2009 together with CP's pledges. Total 4 pledges amount.

    By Anonymous sqkiki, At 10:07 AM  

  • erm, thot i left a comment earlier. no matter.

    u can count me in.

    what's the meaning of number of pledges? number of gifts? if so, put me for 6.

    But wondering if there are nearer drop off points like BU/TTDI/PJ area??? tks

    By Blogger javapot, At 10:16 AM  

  • Thanks for the contribution, Sqkiki. I have already recorded CP's 2 pledges, so will add your 2 pledges in numerical order.

    Update :
    13. Misha Paris's Mum - 5
    14. Jacss - 5
    15. Amy - 5
    16. Jessytai - 2
    17. Eve - 2
    18. Anggie - 3
    19. Michele Soo - 3
    20. Elaine - 5
    21. Hijackqueen - 2
    22. Pek Imm - 3
    23. WCP - 2
    24. NST - 2.5
    25. Sqkiki - 2
    26. Javapot - 6

    Total : 112.5

    Javapot, as spoken, will pick up your parcels on Monday.

    Thanks for contributing, all !!

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 1:47 AM  

  • 27. Adrine - 5

    I will transfer via Maybank2U.
    btw, who's RHB a/c is this ? Pls let me know what name I should put for "Recipient Name". thx!

    By Blogger Adrine, At 12:03 PM  

  • 28. Annie Q - 3 pledges. Once i bank in the money i will let you know. Thanks Christene!

    By Blogger Annie Q, At 2:37 PM  

  • Hi Christene,

    I'm Sheryl Hen. Just transfered to the RHB a/c. Ref no. 96418X167589.
    Mine is 3 pledges.


    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 12:59 AM  

  • Hi Christene,

    I'm Sheryl Hen. Just transfered to the RHB a/c. Ref no. 96418X167589. Mine is 3 pledges.


    By Anonymous Sheryl, At 1:03 AM  

  • I will transfer via maybank2u and I need to know the full name of the account holder and the IC number. Please email me, Christene.

    JO-N : 5 pledges

    By Blogger JO-N, At 6:45 AM  

  • Christene,

    I am Pei Yueen and I have just transfered 2 pledges to RHB A/C No. 2140-71000-98939 belonging to a Tee Suat Choo. When I was an active member in MMB, I also manage to pledge some gifts.

    May I ask if any of the volunteers are staying in Kepong as I would like to volunteer myself but I do not have transport. Do let me know, yeah! My email address is

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:45 AM  

  • Hi, I hopped on over from Elaine's blog. What attracted me here was your 'About Me' write up. I love it!

    Anyway, can you give me more details on the RHB account that we're supposed to bank into? I'd have to ask the Hubs to manually bank it in as we don't have RHB or Maybank accounts. Is it right that we bank in the money and you will organise buying the stuff? This is a much better effort than what I did in the past with another group (of course, we didn't have blogs then!) so well done to all the participating Moms!

    Where is this hospital??

    Thank you - Email me:

    By Blogger Big Pumpkin, At 12:17 PM  

  • Hi, Christene,

    Vedis here. I banked in RM40 to your RHB at 13:27:11 from Gopeng, Perak.


    By Blogger Vedis Teh, At 3:55 PM  

  • Dear Christene, would like to know the details of the bank account holder (name & IC number) as I'm transfering vis maybank2u. Please e-mail me. Thanks.

    Kerry: 3 pledges

    By Blogger Kerry, At 11:37 PM  

  • Hi,

    I am interested too. Can I get more banking details? Please email me at janiceloke at hotmail dotcom. I wanna pledge 2.5 pledge to round up your nos. Thanks!

    By Anonymous Janice, At 8:22 AM  

  • 27. Pohling - 2

    I will bank-in to RHB account today.


    By Blogger Pohling, At 9:35 AM  

  • Hi Christene,
    I think you left the wrong email add on my blog. I sent an email yesterday,no reply but I tot I can proceed with M2U anyway, but I got the message "not valid email add".

    Can you send me the details (full name & email add) to my email pls?


    By Blogger Adrine, At 11:50 AM  

  • Hi Dear - Sorry I can't contribute a pledge...a bit cash-strapped now.

    Will give a bit of buzz to this effort on my blog and hope that it'll draw more pledges by Friday!

    Take care ok

    By Anonymous KittyCat, At 12:16 PM  

  • ok, fund transfer today(06/05) via MBB - 2 pledges!

    By Anonymous Jess, At 5:43 PM  

  • 37. chinnee - 3 pledges

    By Blogger Mummy to QiQi, At 6:59 PM  

  • 37. Arthur Chu - 5

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 7:58 PM  

  • The Giddy Tigers - 5 pledges

    By Anonymous giddy tigress, At 12:53 AM  

  • Hi Christene,

    I would like contribute 3 pledges - I'm located at Bangsar / Sri Petaling. Any drop off points here? Do I have to wrap the pressie?

    By Blogger Blog's author, At 12:17 PM  

  • Hi Blog's Author, Can you drop it off at Kota Damansara? If so,please email me for the address.Thanks for wanting to contribute. And yes, the present needs to be wrapped. It helps if you stick a sticky tape telling us the content so that we know which mother to give what. Thanks.

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 12:50 PM  

  • Hi Christene, pls. may I have the mayban a/c name and no. so that I could transfer some $ as my contribution towards your worthy course. Tq

    By Blogger paulineongtl, At 2:35 PM  

  • Thanks for coming by to pick up the gifts. :)

    Hope they like my gifts.

    By Anonymous karenyiau, At 2:58 PM  

  • Christene

    Bank-in RM40.00 to RHB account just now (payment made by cheque). Will send u the banking in details to ur e-mail later on.

    Thank you.

    By Blogger Pohling, At 5:06 PM  

  • Hi Pauline, can you leave me your email address at Thanks

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 7:28 AM  

  • Thanks for your 5 pledges, Karen, I am sure mother and child will enjoy the wonderful book together. The bracelets is a nice touch.

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 7:30 AM  

  • 5xmom - 5 pledges
    Elaine Lai - 3 pledges

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 11:33 AM  

  • Christene,

    I have bank in RM40 to the RHB account on 5/5/09.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 1:59 PM  

  • chinnee - 3
    Arthur chu - 5
    GiddyTigerS - 5
    5xmom - 5 pledges
    Elaine Lai - 3 pledges
    Janice Loke - 2.5 pledges
    Karen Yiaw - 5
    motherly journal - 2
    Kerry - 3
    Pauline - 5
    LJW - 5

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 4:23 PM  

  • wow! this is impressive!! i just found out about it today :(

    By Blogger 2ma, At 9:09 AM  

  • Do u still need volunteers ?

    By Blogger Tan Catherine, At 8:19 AM  

  • Hi, Catherine, we already have the required amount. But please do go to Facebook and join mothering mother 2014 to rally more gifts

    By Blogger allthingspurple, At 11:54 AM  

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